We are also stuck on two decisions-
Should we find out what we're having?
Should we have a baby shower for baby #2?
I like the idea of being surprised in the delivery room, but I also love that technology is so advanced it's given me the chance to plan accordingly far before the baby is born! If it were up to our family they would definitely want us to find out.
As for the baby shower for GN there are still a lot of things we need for this baby! Plus baby showers are so much fun...
What did you do? Any suggestions?